…no better reward for one who disobeys Allah concerning you than your obeying Allah concerning him..
‘Umar Ibn Khattab (رضي الله عنه) said:
Whoever conceals his secrets will have the choice (of telling whomever he wants to tell), but whoever speaks or acts in a suspicious manner should not blame anyone who thinks badly of him. Do not think badly of a word spoken by your brother when you can still find good ways to interpret it. Think positively of your brother until you are certain that he is not like that. Do not swear a great deal lest Allah humiliate you.There is no better reward for one who disobeys Allah concerning you than your obeying Allah concerning him. You should seek sincere friends and main good relations with them, for they are a pleasure at times of ease and a support at times of calamity.